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What is a Coach?

The word "coach" originated in mid-16th century Europe. A Hungarian town named Kocs was known for building the best horse-drawn wagons to carry people from place to place, and the vehicles became known by the city's name. A coach is a vehicle to transport people from where they are to where they want to be. 

That meaning translated from a horse-drawn carriage to a motor coach still translates to the core mission of a human coach. A coach's mission is to get a person from one current ability, skill, competency, or level of understanding to the next. Coaches don't do the work, they just support the person to make it easier and more comfortable for their journey.

What does this mean for coaches today? First, coaches need to know their client's destination (I use “client” as a general term for whom they are coaching, whether or not it is paid). Without this knowledge, a coach may use the completely wrong “vehicle” or take their client to the wrong waypoints. 

For example, a teacher may return from a conference excited about a new edtech resource. The coach should match the client's excitement, but ask what the teacher means to accomplish with the resource. Clarity on the end goal allows the coach to help the client know if the technology is the correct one, and how best to use the tech. Many have student or instructor-paced, and independent or team modes. The best steps to a successful coaching session start with understanding the client’s why.

Second, any ride is bound to meet turbulence. A good coach will see potential obstacles coming, or help navigate through or around them. A client’s mindset and self-limiting beliefs can be as big of a holdup as a lack of skill or knowledge. Getting the client to believe they will succeed will help them have the grit to persevere.

Lastly, any good mode of transport provides safety and comfort. A client who is stretching their ability needs a coach to encourage them, allow them to fail, listen to them, and ultimately allow them to get to their destination with all their bells on. That adage refers to transport horses that held bells attached to their bridle. If they arrived with all the bells on, it was a safe journey.

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